Are these FEELINGS from GOD?

     I have said before that when I will be married, I will definitely write my love story as a testimony to inspire people that they should wait for the right person because before this was written, God wrote it already and made it all perfect but I should take responsible of maintaining its value by taking care of it, and taking extra care of it everyday to make it a perfect relationship.

     Relationships doesn't have to be all romantic and sweet because life is all made to be imperfect so that we will always need God's help for wisdom, guidance and His amazing grace that strengthens us whenever we fall and stumble as long as we seek to love Him because He has loved us first before we have loved Him. Yes, there's no such thing as a perfect kind'f love, but God's love is perfect. When we acknowledge His ways, He will surely make things right for us. You will know when it's the right person when it came from God. Not all married couples are God given partners because all should came from a good start and blessings will be seen by the people around you, by your family and not just by friends. When it's from Him, it should be forever and you'll help each other working it out! That's EACH OTHER!Especially when you're already married."What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate".-Matthew 19:6. Only death can separate you both.;)

     Not all intense feelings are true. It can be love or infatuation, so you should be careful on what you really feel because these feelings are more often confused for each other by many, and I have experienced it too. Asses what you feel and you study what the other person feels. You may have different intentions.So you better watch out!"Guard your heart more than anything else, because the source of your life flows from it."-Proverbs 4:23.

     Love doesn't have to be that intense, it should be more of an affection than attraction, while infatuation's physical attraction is central. Being infatuated is being head over heels and leads to reckless abandonment of what was once valued, and that includes your family, work, and above all, time with the Lord.Infatuation is like a feeling of uncontrollable sexual desire and hormonal activity. All-consuming-addictive, that you loss the ability to make rational evaluations of what is true and worthy. You take risks to make it happen and to satisfy yourself. Because when it's love, you don't have to take control or to make any effort at it all because it will just happen, because God will put things in order. You will just believe that His plans are greater than yours. 

     In love, feelings of security is felt even if you are not together, either married or in a relationship. There's peace and you feel confident and contented. 

     A relationship truly in love, requires a lot of selflessness and polite assertiveness. This is the time that you will think about other person's feelings before you speak and act. It's the time you want to improve yourself better to make him love you more and make that person happy of having you, rather than thinking of what the person will do for you to be happy, although oftentimes i expect it from my hubby, and that once selfish me to a work on progress selfless me. It's gradual process and its a work overtime thing.For those waiting, you just need to be the right one, to find the right one. Just prepare yourself for the Lord's best.;)

    Long engagement is not the basis of love, and I am not saying long term relationship is not true because mine didn't work out before, or whirlwind romance will lead to long-lasting love. What I am saying is that we don't have to save something not worthy of our worth. The best kind of love makes us closer to our Lord Jesus, to our family not living like on your own world kind of love, and always gonna bring out the best of each other! Not to influence you to do things that are not pleasing to the Lord. I may sound boring in that matter but good will always be greater than bad and that results blessings, while bad will leads to sin and no matter how small it is, it has a consequence. So grab this day as a chance to live not to the fullest because we only live once we should live it with goodness and love the right person who loves us back and deserves our worth and time. 

     Above all, we value God's love by following Him and waiting for what He promised in our Lives. ;)

Lemme share this:

I always thank our living God for His words are true.  The love that he has placed in my heart, the fire in my soul that I can't contain,and for giving me a husband who I can grow more of His great presence. ^.^




I am so sorry if I didn't really write about my love story, instead I wrote the road which I had taken, in His words...that perhaps leads to your love story written by God. 

GOODNIGHT!I hope it's something worth reading for... <3